General, Relationships

Reevaluate Life Prompts for Personal Growth: Couples Edition

Ever feel like you and your partner are running on autopilot? When life gets busy, it’s easy to lose sight of your growth as a couple.

Joe and I set aside time once a year for a life check-in using thoughtful prompts. These prompts are meant to help us discover blind spots, celebrate progress, and realign our priorities together.

Thoughtful prompts aren’t just questions, they’re conversation starters. Try some out during your next quiet evening together and see what insights emerge.

Reevaluate Life Prompts

Below are some example questions:

  1. Looking at our current path: our jobs, our living situation, and how we spend our time – what parts feel really aligned with who we are and what we want? What parts might need tweaking to better match our values or goals?

  2. When we feel most content and ‘in flow’ together in our daily life, what exactly are we doing? Are we creating enough space for those moments, or should we reorganize some things to have more of what makes us thrive?

  3. What’s one thing we each feel a little nervous or uncertain about in our current plans? It could be something small or big – and then let’s brainstorm how we could address that uncertainty together.

These prompts aren’t meant to be answered once and forgotten. Keep responses in a shared google doc and revisit them every few months to see how you’ve grown. Jot down notes, write out any needed fixes, assign action items, keep on growing.

What’s beautiful about this practice is that there are no wrong answers. There’s only opportunities to understand each other more deeply and create a more intentional future together.

Remember, the goal isn’t to have perfect responses but to create space for honest conversation about what matters most.

Quick Tips for Success

  • Set aside distractions

  • Approach each prompt with curiosity rather than judgment

  • Be open to what you discover about yourselves as individuals and as partners

Getting 1% better, together

Books, Think & Grow Rich

Take Inventory of Yourself: 28 Questions You Should Answer

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The amount of money we make, the relationships we have, the progress we make… can be directly related to the effectiveness and quality of our actions.

At a warehouse for example, if the machine is effective, we’re pushing out quality products. The labels line up perfectly.

We’re like machines in that way. If we’re off in some way, the results we get will be slightly (or majorly) different from what we’d want.

Below are 28 questions that allow us to take a personal inventory. They come from one of my top books: Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.

Ideally we find faults in our actions and work to improve them. Overtime we should find ourselves doing better, at a larger amount, with a good positive attitude. The theme of these questions is performance, at work and in life.

Self-Analysis Questionnaire for Personal Inventory

  1. Have I attained the goal which I established as my objective for this year? (You should work with a definite yearly objective to be attained as a part of your major life objective.)

  2. Have I delivered service of the best possible quality of which I was capable, or could I have improved any part of this service?

  3. Have I delivered service in the greatest possible quantity of which I was capable?

  4. Has the spirit of my conduct been harmonious and cooperative at all times?

  5. Have I permitted the habit of procrastination to decrease my efficiency and if so, to what extent?

  6. Have I improved my personality, and if so, in what ways?

  7. Have I been persistent in following my plans through to completion?

  8. Have I reached decisions promptly and definitely on all occasions?

  9. Have I permitted any one or more of the six basic fears [poverty, criticism, ill health, loss of love of someone, old age, death] to decrease my efficiency?

  10. Have I been either “over-cautious,” or “under-cautious”?

  11. Has my relationship with my associates in work been pleasant, or unpleasant? If it has been unpleasant, has the fault been partly, or wholly mine?

  12. Have I dissipated any of my energy through lack of concentration of effort?

  13. Have I been open-minded and tolerant in connection with all subjects?

  14. In what way have I improved my ability to render service?

  15. Have I been intemperate in any of my habits?

  16. Have I expressed, either openly or secretly, any form of egotism?

  17. Has my conduct toward my associates been such that it has induced them to respect me?

  18. Have my opinions and decisions been based upon guesswork, or accuracy of analysis and thought?

  19. Have I followed the habit of budgeting my time, my expenses, and my income, and have I been conservative in these budgets?

  20. How much time have I devoted to unprofitable effort which I might have used to better advantage?

  21. How may I re-budget my time, and change my habits so I will be more efficient during the coming year?

  22. Have I been guilty of any conduct which was not approved by my conscience?

  23. In what ways have I rendered more service and better service than I was paid to render?

  24. Have I been unfair to anyone, and if so, in what way?

  25. If I had been the purchaser of my own services for the year, would I be satisfied with my purchase?

  26. Has the purchaser of my services been satisfied with the service I have rendered, and if not, why not?

  27. Am I in the right vocation, and if not, why not?

  28. What is my present rating on the fundamental principles of success? (Make this rating fairly, and frankly, and have it checked by someone who is courageous enough to do it accurately.)”

This is the exact self-analysis questionnaire we use at our house! It’s the first thing we do to close out the year and plan for the new year. And you most certainly can go through this at any point throughout the year.

General

Time management = concentration of effort

Time management is all about concentration of effort.

Concentration of effort: to focus one’s attention or mental effort on a particular object or activity.


Time Analysis Questions

Below are some questions we can ask ourselves to bring more awareness to how we are using and managing our time:

Does it take you a long time to get simple tasks done?

Do you daydream a lot?

Do you have your goals written out with a weekly plan to follow?

Do you set aside time weekly to review your goals and plan your upcoming week?

Do you win the day pretty quickly or does it take all day to get your tasks done?

Do you utilize a timer or similar system to balance work mode and breaks?

Do you take 5 deep belly breaths before starting work?

Do you close out your day and prepare for tomorrow?

Do you try to “multitask”? 

Do you find that it takes you – longer with more effort – to get things done when you’re trying to do multiple things at once?

Do you get distracted easily during focus times?

Do you pick up your phone to check social media during focus times, or when you’re with friends and family?

How is your concentration of effort? What would you rate it 1-10? Is there room for improvement?


Wrapping Up

If we can concentrate better on the task in front of us, we manage our time better, and in turn manage our lives better. Getting 1% better everyday.


Free Tools to Get Started

Life Map System
Daily Powerlist
Timeblock Session Template


Quote of the Week

“Beautiful flowers are not anxious about tomorrow but live with ease in the timeless Now and are provided for abundantly by God.” –Eckhart Tolle referring to Matthew 6:28-34

Productivity

Achieving Your Ideal Life: Goals, Habits, and Priorities

​​What are 5 things you value most in life?

Picture and envision your ideal life. What does it look, sound, and feel like?

What makes this vision of your life really important to you? Why do you really want to reach this vision?

Imagine yourself in the future 3 years from now, as you look back what specific goals and milestones did you achieve? (be specific)

How can your goals specifically assist you in achieving your ideal life vision and your “why”?

​​What strengths can you draw on to achieve your goals? What are you naturally good at?

What habits do you need to establish or improve to reach your goals?

What is your top priority goal to achieve in the next 90 days?