How to Plan New Experiences with Your Partner

Want to grow closer with your partner?! Stop talking about “someday” adventures and schedule them in!

The gap between wanting and doing can definitely dull the excitement if you don’t have a proper system in place.

Below is a little checklist to make sure you’re getting in your dates and adventures:

Couple’s Experience System:

• Monthly planning date – Sit down with calendars and coffee once a month and plan out details

• The 2-6-12 rule – Plan 2 big experiences per year, 6 medium ones, 12 small monthly adventures

• Alternate who chooses – You pick January’s adventure, they pick February’s (keeps things fair and exciting)

• Budget together – Set aside experience money monthly so finances don’t become an excuse

Big experiences = weekend trips or concerts. Medium = day trips to new places. Small = trying a new restaurant or hiking trail. A lil variety keeps life interesting without overwhelming your schedule or budget.

When you schedule experiences together, you’re prioritizing your relationship. You’re saying “our connection matters more than screens and routine.”

Try this today:

Text your partner right now: “Want to plan out our next 3 adventures this weekend?!” Schedule in that planning session and think about some ideas!

Share your thoughts below!

Want the full framework? Check out Kevin’s Rule!