The simplest way to improve your social media experience? Start removing instead of adding.
I just deleted over 2,000 Instagram followers and unfollowed 500+ accounts. Next up: Facebook friends
Here’s what I’m keeping:
People I genuinely know and like
Accounts that inspire without overwhelming
Connections that feel reciprocal and real
What I’m removing:
Random followers from years ago
Accounts that drain my energy
Anyone who fails the feel-good test
This isn’t about being exclusive or mean, it’s about being intentional. Quality connections over vanity metrics. Real relationships over random follows.
The result? I already feel lighter. My feed shows people I actually care about. My mental space feels cleaner. Instead of scrolling past hundreds of strangers, I’m seeing updates from friends and family who matter.
Social media should enhance your real relationships, not replace them with shallow connections to people you barely know or like. It’s a hard truth. Control what you can. And part of that is filtering what content you’re consuming.
Try this today:
Look at your feeds. Do you genuinely care about the people you’re seeing? If not, give unfollow.
Ready for your own digital detox?! Take it one platform at a time. 10 minute intervals going through your friends list. Instagram let’s you remove followers too if someone is following you that you don’t want.
Slow and steady progress. Peaceful warrior type shit.
A clean home is a happy home. A clutter free home = a clutter free mind. When we deep clean our homes, we’re quite literally deep cleaning our minds too. Our outer world reflects our inner world.
I love cleaning! There I said it! Something about the process, and completing a task that helps the hive as a whole. Cleaning is a great deposit for your home life, positively affecting you and everyone you live with.
That just cleaned feeling, when you finally sit down, light a candle, maybe hit a joint, and soak it all in. Just being. Quiet, clean, happy, at peace.
Below is a basic home cleaning schedule I’ve been using with success. Remember a little bit everyday adds up. If you can commit 10 minutes a day to cleaning, it’ll go a long way.
Daily
Make bed as soon as you get up
Wipe down kitchen counters and sink after meals
Quick pick-up of toys and clutter
Vacuum or sweep high-traffic areas
Weekly
Monday: Dust living areas, dining room, and hallways
By writing down my needs and wants, they in a sense become more real.
Repetitive thoughts backed by strong emotion = thoughts starting to manifest into their physical equivalent
Remember to think only about the good you want, because even if you say “I want peace” vs “I don’t want peace” – what gets picked up is PEACE, whether you want it or not is not relevant.
By putting energy and focus to PEACE, you attract just that. It’s the concept of autosuggestion, and the word peace is interchangeable.
I’m continuously working to harness the power of autosuggestion to create my own dream life. Think and grow rich in all areas type shit.
Here’s my list. Maybe you can relate. Maybe you have a few of your own to add.
What I want:
Peace and safety
Authentic connection
Creative freedom
Physical vitality
Financial security and growth
Simplicity
Nature and spiritual connection
Quality time with Joey and Champ
Adventures
And in the spirit of simply not speaking of the things I don’t want, but knowing what they are… I’m gonna keep on stepping, focusing on the good in my life, the best is yet to come!
35 days on our epic Southeast USA road trip, and it’s been an unforgettable journey!
From our hometown of Philadelphia, PA, we’ve explored the beauty of Southeast USA, covering: Virginia, North Carolina, South Carolina, Georgia, Florida, Alabama, and Tennessee.
Our straight-throughs for the trip were cafes, stickers, and cheap long sleeves. Our way of getting to know an area, support local businesses, and get some mementos. We also loved reading about the history of the area as we drove through each spot. Loved this trip so much, was a such fun adventure.
Virginia
American Brew Virginia Beach, Virginia coffee & whiskey bar w acai bowls – a favorite go-to spot for us
First Landing State Park (2 nights) Virginia Beach, Virginia historic bay and beach – first time camping within walking distance to the beach, morning miles + sunbathing
North Carolina
Sealevel Vegan Diner Wilmington, North Carolina artsy vegan spot for lunch + sweets – kinda want to work here?!
South Carolina
Huntington Beach State Park (2 nights) Murrells Inlet, South Carolina breathtaking marsh views & beach – a fun beach run to the jetty
Beech Cafe & Marketplace Charleston, South Carolina coffee, acai bowls, bagels w vegan butter, THC drinks – cutesy area
Georgia
Hungry Vegan Savannah, Georgia delicious vegan soul food – rare gem, great people, home kitchen vibes
Florida
Anastasia State Park (2 nights) St. Augustine, Florida sandy campsite with weekly farmers market – muffins, cold-pressed juice, micro greens
Clearwater Airbnb (7 nights) Clearwater, Tampa, Gulfport, and Dunedin vibrant city and beach towns – relaxed by the pool, explored new spots
St Andrews State Park (4 nights) Panama City, Florida waterfront camping by the gulf – amazing time, got hot and buggy so we spontaneously booked:
Alabama
Chewalaca State Park (1 night) Auburn, Alabama scenic trails and waterfall – our saving grace from the heat and bugs (a great lesson for us that we can do whatever we want when we want; we don’t have to be stubborn in changing the plan *this lesson serves us later on in the trip)
Oak Mountain State Park (3 nights) Pelham, Alabama majestic mountain range – tree top nature trail to visit native Alabama birds of prey rehabilitated by the Alabama Wildlife Center
Georgia
Cloudland Canyon State Park (2 nights) Rising Fawn, Georgia picturesque gorge, amazing trails, campsite was within .25 mile of a breathing overlook
*severe weather Alert comes in: Hurricane Helene is on our path and we have to decide whether to stay our third and final night at the Cloudland campsite (in our suv) or find a safe shelter (like a hotel) for the storm.
We decided on finding a hotel for the night. The next question was: Asheville, North Carolina (next major on our list) or Chattanooga, Tennessee (the town we were gonna drive through before Asheville)?
Tennessee
Days Inn Hotel (7 nights) Chattanooga, Tennessee scenic cityscape (waited out Hurricane Helene in safety) We ended up booking 3 nights at Days Inn initially. Really grateful we made this choice. Ashville was hit hard: lives lost, flooded roads, lost power, food and water storage, hundreds of people stranded for weeks with no phone service. Like tf. So sad and scary. While Chattanooga was spared. We got to enjoy a few city days walking and exploring with Champ, getting fun runs in. We were shaken up, but still trying to soak up the moment and be where are feet are.
Road Trip Pivot
At this point in our trip, we planned to hit the Blueridge Parkway in North Carolina but the hurricane devasted the entire area. We waited out at the Days Inn for another 3 nights to figure out our next move. We had two options: either head home or finish out our trip. We made some calls to see what campgrounds were even still open. And decided to skip over the BRP altogether and pick back up on Skyline Drive in Shenandoah National Park, Virginia.
Between Days Inn Chattanooga and Shenandoah lies the Days Inn of Roanoke. And damn it if we could give a place 0 stars. Nasty ass. BUT we figured no one’s forcing us to stay, we packed up and headed to Walmart then Loves at 10pm to prep for Shenny (food shop, laundry, sleep). Wow if this wasn’t a test of patience. We were set on going home after this one, but finally landed on finishing the trip out.
Virginia
We made it to Shenandoah National Park and it was our trip highlight! It was a huge journey to get there, but we made it… and it was incredible. Skyline drive, the fall foliage, booking the “Honeymoon” suite during our actual honeymoon. It was pure magic. We ended the trip on a great note and headed back home refreshed.
Reflecting and Planning
As I wrap up this blog, I’m feeling super grateful for these new experiences. Making plans and taking off work is everything. Plan your year in advance if you can. Cheers to the open road and making memories with mi amor!
See Kevin’s Rule for our most up-to-date adventures
Cheers, the best is yet to come!
14 LESSONS & REMINDERS
1. No rush getting to next stop. Embrace the moment, THIS is it
2. Minimize screen time. Paper journal, read books, look at nature, talk
3. 5 am wake up for travel days (especially long drive day / if we are making stops along the way; give ourselves time to enjoy the road trip)
4. Organize stuff with stuff
5. Avoid the highways when possible, back roads are easier with rest stops, can just pull off to a gas station or store instead of taking an exit; also back roads are more scenic – take highways if we wanna get somewhere quicker
6. Grab park pamphlets at the welcome center (great info, free souvenir)
7. “Leave nothing but foot prints, take nothing but photos”
8. Workout gear + running clothes serve as an anchor; plan when you are doing workouts that day and pull the gear out asap
9. Check weather average for specific months (high & low) before booking (car camping)
10. Bugs are big deal, get bug kit – candle, incense sticks (BIG hit), wipes for champ and car, spray for us and campsite
11. State parks are a hit – well developed campgrounds with bathrooms, showers, sometimes a camp store and laundry. Shenandoah is not a state park however they have great amenities
12. It’s okay to change plans & reservations, especially if it’s due to weather; you’ll get some sort of refund at most campgrounds; take note when booking about cancellation policy
13. Itinerary folder BIG hit; have confirmation emails & cancellation policies printed out ready to go within folder; have a place to write out notes for each campground / reservation
14. Gear: Wobbie is great quality and versatile (blanket, sunshade, etc); canopy is a must have; having an easy to clean pour over coffee set up with reusable coffee cup is everything; camping stove is a must with extra fuel; dehydrated food big hit
Real growth comes from sitting down and thinking about life.
Starting from our inner world (thoughts, feelings, behavior)…
Working toward our outer world (living situation, job, hobbies, relationships, daily routine)
To start, I asked myself: what fulfills me?
SAVERS morning routine
Gardening and plant care
Cozy coffee/tea time
Yoga flows and strength training
Family walks with Joe + Champ
Sunbathing
Playing guitar
Photography (taking + editing)
Posting on Instagram and blog
Cooking, fruits and vegetables
Boho home decorating
Cleaning (I actually enjoy this!)
BBI shifts (tolerable, pays the bills)
I have a dream to live with monks in Thailand later in life. To share my stories with travelers and explore parts of me I’ve never discovered before. While I’m on the journey to get there, I’m thinking: what should I focus on?
✓ SAVERS morning routine
✓ Connection to nature (gardening, sunbathing, walks)
✓ Creative expression (guitar, photography, blog)
✓ Physical practice (yoga, strength training)
✓ Mindful living (tea time, cooking, healthy eating, upkeep temple)
✓ Sharing seeds with others (Instagram, blog – inspiring w/o pressure)
✓ Simple work that pays the bills without consuming me (BBI)
✓ Financial freedom building (real estate, investments)
I am the elder monk living her stories out in real time. It’s magical and intentional.
As I continue protecting my peace, I’m feeling way less stressed, with more focus, clarity, calmness, and happiness. Connecting more with things that bring me peace, and disconnecting from things that drain my energy.
The key is feeling your body out. Give yourself time to build up to ultra distance capacity. Adapt naturally through training to avoid injuries. Make a plan and adjust as needed. Stay flexible yet focused. Compete with yourself. Know your surroundings. Be prepared, and ready to problem solve. Smile and have a positive attitude. Remember: this too shall pass*. God’s speed.
* “This too shall pass” is a proverb highlighting the temporary nature of all human experiences, meaning both good times and bad times are temporary and will eventually end. It is a mantra for resilience, reminding people to endure suffering with patience & to savor fleeting joyful moments
