Healthy Habits

It’s not what we do, it’s how we do it

Let’s say for example two people both work at the same place.

One works with enthusiasm: always looking for ways to improve their skills, grow the company, and connect with coworkers.

The other works with misery: always pointing things out in a negative way, gossiping, complaining, and criticizing others.

Both of these people work at the same exact place. Yet both have a completely different experience.

One loves work.

One hates work.

The difference between the two? Their ways of thinking.

One wants to be the best they can be.

One wants to be miserable (whether they want to admit it or not).

The beauty of this realization is that WE (yes you and me and every other human) get to choose our own ways of thinking.

Do we focus on the love or the hate?

More deeper…

Are we consciously looking for the positive, reframing the negatives, and trying our best in each passing moment?

Or are we unconsciously looking for the negative, denying any positives, and ignoring the little moments in front of us?

Healthy Habits

Practice patience

By practicing patience, we allow our nerves to relax, our minds to clear, and our lives unfold in a much calmer and natural way.

How can we practice patience?

We can practice patience by taking 5 deep belly breaths.

When can we practice patience?

  • If realize you are rushing around
  • If you catch yourself wanting to speed up a life situation or just life in general
  • If you find yourself wishing you were somewhere different
  • If you notice that you’re longing for different things / a different life

Taking a breather and slowing it down when our minds want to go go go.

Another easy to do, easy not to do thing.

Stay patient my friends and stay blessed💚

Mindset

Higher Form of Reasoning

Something bad ever happen and it turned out to be for your own good in the end?

Maybe you learned a valuable lesson, or an opportunity came and you were at the right place at the right time.

Higher Form of Reasoning is a way of thinking, a belief, that everything that happens is for our greater good.

The good, the bad, all of it.

This way of thinking invites more love, joy, happiness, and hopefulness in our lives.

When we dwell on the bad, victimizing ourselves “poor us” – we invite more grief, sadness, anger, and jealously in our lives.

Higher Form of Reasoning tells us that it’s all working in our favor 🙂

Mindset

Are the past and future conceptions of the mind?

The past

The past does not define you if you decide to take different action today.

Because what you do now, in this very moment, is what truly matters.

The past should be reflected upon if you are retrieving information for immediate use…

Making sure not to dwell on what you could or should of done.

We’re looking for lessons…

Because that’s how we grow and become better.

The future

The future is great (and important) to plan, but living in the future will only disrupt your present moment…

The only true moment you will ever have.

When you catch yourself in dream mode more often than you would like…

Acknowledge that you are in dream mode, or have been lately…

And just look around NOW.

Notice things that you haven’t noticed before.

Listen to all the noises.

Smell the air.

Feel what’s in front of you.

Notice your body’s energy.

Pray for what you appreciate.

Be present.

Think about it ♡
x Corie

Healthy Habits, Lifestyle, Mindfulness

Thinking Time Daily

I love writing out my thoughts- it’s therapeutic and makes the chaos in my head much more simpler.

Keeping a journal never resonated with me until I shifted my vocabulary and started referring to this clearing of the mind as “thinking time”.

My thinking time is super relaxing and is an intentional session when I let all the thoughts that have been swirling around in my head out on paper.

Thinking time helps me to…

  • Explore ideas and the creative imagination
  • Prioritize my problems, fears and concerns
  • Track emotions, feelings, and thoughts
  • Work through negative energy
  • Look at life objectively
  • Learn from mistakes and resolve issues
  • Connect with Nature and Oneness

I typically write anywhere from 2 minutes to 30 minutes on average daily- could be less, could be more it all depends on the day and what I’m feeling!

Thinking sessions have no limits and no thinking session is better than the other.

Relieving Mental Pressure

Getting my thoughts out on paper instantly relieves my mind of pressure.

This added pressure is the result of repeatedly thinking about something.

Even thinking of something as simple as needing to pick up a certain item from the store the next day… in an obsessive manner… over and over again- only makes the situation seem bigger.

Imagine a bunch of small thoughts- growing larger with intensity- the more you think about them…

No wonder why life feels overwhelming at times… we’re dealing with lots of unnecessary emotion!

The small stuff grows into big stuff, and that can leave us paralyzed with no motivation to take action because we’re drained of so much energy.

What’s the Solution?

If we were to take 2 minutes to sketch out thoughts and ideas… life will feel much lighter, more organized, and we’ll have way more energy.

Thinking time could be in the morning, throughout the day, at night… or all three!

Where to Begin with Thinking Time

Thinking sessions are super beneficial for your health and wellness, and I highly recommend them!

Sitting down daily to think is often overlooked but can be easily incorporated into your day. Working on this skill will help you to realize true clarity and your full potential.

Grab a book with empty pages- could be a copybook, spiral notebook, a binder with loose leaf, whatever you are drawn too. I’ve more recently been using Google Keep on my phone and love it (color coded, tags, can add people to the note).

Date the entry and write whatever comes to mind…

When any to-dos or ideas come up throughout the day, I like to write them into a specific section / note to get extra organized. For example, on Google Keep I have a ‘Needed Fixes’ note and ‘Ah-Has’ note – I then use these notes for my weekly meeting where Joe and I review our wins, ah-has, and needed fixes for the week. We’ve been doing it for years now and swear by this system for practical personal improvement.

Below are some thought-provoking questions I’ve appreciated in the past:

  • What truly makes me happy?
  • How could I incorporate more joy into my life?
  • What is draining my energy?
  • What am I doing that is unnecessary and unproductive?
  • If I could choose one thing to do for the rest of my life what would it be?
  • If I had the chance to rewrite my scripts, what would I say?
  • What can I do to support my health? wealth? relationships? experiences?


Happy thinking (-:
x Corie