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Mindset

Holiday Mindset Tips to Keep You Centered

Corie Muldoon

The holiday season is upon us, and with it comes a mix of emotions. While it’s a time for joy, giving, and connection, it can also be overwhelming, stressful, and draining.

As we navigate the hustle and bustle of the holidays, it’s essential to focus on our mental and emotional well-being.

Here are some holiday mindset tips to help you stay centered, calm, and focused during this busy time of year:

1. Set Boundaries

Learn to say “no” to commitments that drain your energy or cause undue stress. Focus on your own needs and well-being.

2. Practice Mindfulness

Take a few minutes each day to focus on your breath, body, and surroundings. Mindfulness practices like meditation, deep breathing, or yoga can help calm your mind and reduce stress.

3. Focus on What Truly Matters

Amidst the chaos of the holiday season, it’s easy to get caught up in the commercialism and materialism. Think about what truly brings you joy and fulfillment, and focus on those things.

4. Take Care of Your Physical Health

Regular exercise, healthy eating, and enough sleep are essential for maintaining your mental and emotional well-being during the holidays.

5. Connect with Nature

Spend time outdoors, whether it’s walking in a park, hiking in the woods.. or simply sitting in a garden or on a balcony with plants. Nature has a way of calming and grounding us.

6. Practice Gratitude

Take time each day to think about the things you’re grateful for. Focus on what you already have, rather than what you don’t have. It can help shift your mindset and cultivate a sense of contentment.

7. Be Kind to Yourself

Remember that it’s okay to not be okay during the holidays. Allow yourself to feel your emotions, and don’t put too much pressure on yourself to be perfect.

8. Create a Self-Care Routine

Create a daily or weekly self-care routine that nourishes your mind, body, and soul. This can include activities like reading, journaling, or taking a relaxing bath.

9. Reframe Your Thinking

Challenge negative thoughts and reframe them in a more positive or realistic light. Focus on the moment, rather than getting caught up in worries about the past or future.

10. Seek Support

Don’t be afraid to reach out to friends, family, or a therapist for support during the holiday season. Talking through your feelings and concerns can help you feel more grounded and centered.

Wrapping Up

By incorporating these holiday mindset tips into your daily routine… you’ll be better equipped to navigate holiday challenges with greater ease, calmness, and clarity.

Remember, the holiday season is a time for joy, connection, and celebration. By prioritizing your mental and emotional well-being, you’ll be able to have fun and make new memories with loved ones.

Mindset

First Thought, Second Thought: The Power of Mindful Response

Corie Muldoon

Have you ever reacted impulsively, only to regret your words or actions later? Do you often find yourself stuck in patterns of thought that hold you back?

The concept of “First Thought, Second Thought” offers liberation.

What is First Thought, Second Thought?

First Thought: The initial, instinctive reaction to a situation.

Second Thought: The considered, thoughtful response that follows.

The Space Between Thoughts

Recognizing the gap between these thoughts empowers you:

  1. Pause and reflect
  2. Choose your response
  3. Break free from impulsive patterns

Benefits of Second Thought

  1. Improved relationships through thoughtful communication
  2. Enhanced decision-making and problem-solving
  3. Reduced stress and anxiety

Practical Applications

  1. Mindfulness practices (meditation, deep breathing)
  2. Journaling to process thoughts
  3. Seeking diverse perspectives

Soul Story Example

The Coffee Shop Encounter

Sarah rushed into her favorite coffee shop, stressed and running late. As she waited in line, someone accidentally bumped into her, spilling coffee on her shirt.

First Thought

“Are you kidding me?! Watch where you’re going!”

The Pause

Sarah took a deep breath, noticing her tension.

Second Thought

“It’s okay, accidents happen. Let me help you clean up.”

The stranger apologized and offered to buy Sarah’s coffee. They struck up a conversation, and Sarah discovered a new friend.

Reflection

Sarah realized her initial anger was rooted in stress, not the incident. By choosing her response, she turned frustration into connection.

Embracing Second Thought

Practice mindful response:

  1. Watch your thoughts
  2. Pause before reacting
  3. Choose empathy and understanding

Share Your Insights!

How has Second Thought affected your life?

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Healthy Habits, Seasonal - Holidays

Healthy Holiday Tips: Nurturing Body, Mind, Spirit

Corie Muldoon

The holiday season is upon us, bringing joy, love, and togetherness.

But for many, this time of year can also be stressful, emotionally challenging, and physically draining.

Below are some tips and affirmations to support your well-being and help you cultivate a positive mindset and navigate grief.

Physical Well-being

1. Stay hydrated: drink plenty of water

2. Mindful eating: savor each bite, focus on nutrition

3. Exercise: engage in activities that bring joy (walking, yoga)

4. Sleep: focus on rest (7-8 hours / night)

5. Self-care: treat yourself to relaxing baths or massages

Mental and Emotional Well-being

1. Boundary setting: say “no” when you need to recharge

2. Mindfulness practices: meditate, practice deep breathing

3. Connect with nature: take walks, enjoy outdoor activities

4. Creative expression: engage in art, writing, or music

5. Seek support: reach out to loved ones, professionals

Spiritual Well-being

1. Gratitude practice: think about your blessings daily

2. Connection to values: align actions with personal principles

3. Self-reflection: journal, introspect

4. Forgiveness: release burdens

5. Mindful moments: pause, appreciate life’s beauty

Affirmations for a Positive Mindset

1. Coping with loss: “I honor my loved ones’ memories.”

2. Managing stress: “I trust my ability to handle challenges”

3. Building confidence: “I am worthy of love, respect, and happiness”

4. Cultivating gratitude: “I am grateful for life’s blessings”

5. Embracing joy: “I radiate positivity and warmth”

6. Overcoming anxiety: “I breathe peace and calmness”

1. Allow emotions: acknowledge, confirm feelings

2. Create rituals: honor loved ones (candlelight, memory sharing)

3. Seek support: connect with others experiencing loss

4. Self-care: focus on rest and relaxation

5. Think about memories: cherish happy moments

Extra Resources

1. National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) Helpline: 1-800-950-6264

2. Crisis Text Line: Text “HOME” to 741741

3. Mindfulness apps: Headspace, Calm

By incorporating these tips and affirmations into your holiday routine, you’ll nourish your spirit and embrace the season with positivity.

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Goals

Find your sacred spot

Corie Muldoon

It could be a little nook in the corner of the house, your bedroom, a writing desk, where ever you feel relaxed and inspired.

Fill your space with things that bring you joy…

Plants, pillows, a candle, blanket maybe, some good books, incense, a journal.

Use your sacred space to set morning intentions, as a retreat to decompress, when you need a lift in spirits, when you want to ponder or create.

Play some Classical Relaxation or Native American Flute on Pandora to set the mood…

And enjoy this sacred place you created for yourself.

Goals

Legs on the wall

Corie Muldoon

Hi all! I’m currently writing to you with my legs up on the wall. 🙂

When we sit or stand for long periods of time, it can hurt our blood circulation. Our legs and feet can even become swollen, or worse…

So when we put our legs above our heart we are encouraging happy blood flow.

I love this pose and you can do it pretty much anywhere – floor, bed, couch, outside, etc.

No wall? No problem. Elevate your legs above your heart using pillows or something similar. Even a slight elevation will work magic.

Getting our legs up and moving them more…

Improves blood circulation, our lymphatic system, sleep, and energy levels…

Relieves pain, swelling, and headaches…

And helps with digestion, inflammation, and bloating.

The more you can do it the better.

Like when you’re reading, watching your shows / vids, creating content (me right now!), pondering about life, napping, & so on.

Leg health is real! Take care of those babies.

Goals

Taking a walk

Corie Muldoon

Hearing wind chimes, birds, lawn mowers.

Smelling fresh air, the flowers and greenery.

Seeing houses, cars, people, stores, streets, animals, plants.

Feeling my phone in my hand, champ’s leash on my arm, and socks on my feet. Also feeling grateful, a little hungry, sweaty, and inspired.

Tasting peppermint.

Thinking about the moment. Grounding myself in the now.