"Let Them & Let Me" is a mindset strategy from Mel Robbins: "Let them" means accepting you can't control others' actions, thoughts, or moods (e.g. "Let them be wrong" or "Let them act that way") "Let me" is the powerful follow-up, reclaiming your agency by focusing on your own control: your responses, boundaries, and choices ("Let… Continue reading When Comments Catch You Off Guard: Let Them and Let Me
Category: Mental Health
Daily Candle Rituals for Stress Relief This Holiday Season
Skip the expensive self-care products. This holiday season, strengthen your spirit with the oldest ritual in the book: lighting a candle. Here's why it works: the simple act of lighting a candle signals your brain that it's time to pause. That flame becomes focal point, a micro-meditation. The simple act of lighting a candle can… Continue reading Daily Candle Rituals for Stress Relief This Holiday Season
Sync Your Wellness: Use the Sun to Move and the Moon to Feel
Our energy shifts with nature, so why wouldn't our wellness routine?! Here's a fun concept: the sun guides movement and the moon guides emotional work. I started to sync physical activity with daylight patterns and shadow work with lunar cycles. It's really transformed how I show up for myself. Sun-Based Movement: Summer: Long runs, outdoor… Continue reading Sync Your Wellness: Use the Sun to Move and the Moon to Feel
Express Feelings Positively with the ‘I Feel’ Framework
Here are my notes for communicating feelings and needs to others in a productive, positive way: Instead of bottling up emotions or exploding in frustration, let's work on expressing our thoughts, feelings, and needs in a productive and positive way. This is one of my biggest weaknesses (continuing and never-ending improvement). It's been fun learning… Continue reading Express Feelings Positively with the ‘I Feel’ Framework
Release Emotional Pain: 3 Simple Ways to Heal Your Pain-Body
Eckhart Tolle's concept of the "pain-body" explains why past hurts keep surfacing. The pain-body is our accumulated emotional pain, that feeds on negative thoughts and reactions. The good news? You can start to heal your emotional pain-body today! 3 Ways to Heal Your Pain-Body Practice presence when triggered – When emotional pain arises, don't fight… Continue reading Release Emotional Pain: 3 Simple Ways to Heal Your Pain-Body
Own Your Emotions: The Daily Check-In That Changes Everything
The Daily Check-In: A simple 5-minute emotional check-in that helps you express feelings honestly without blaming others or spiraling into self-criticism. Most of us either bottle up emotions or let them explode... both hurt our relationships and well-being. The middle ground is taking ownership of your feelings while staying accountable, without dragging yourself or others… Continue reading Own Your Emotions: The Daily Check-In That Changes Everything
